I have been quarrelling over marriage things with him for the past few weeks. And he die die won't compromise me,only i have to compromise him. I have been thinking for many days. And i think is time to let go this 8 yrs of r/s. I telling myself i won't eat the humble pie anymore.It has reach my limit of tolerance n patient. If you are going to see to wat extend i can reach then too bad i have alr reach my limit.

Marriage is suppose to be a couple's thing but i think i m naive. Guys are selfish. If he say he will treat u better after marriage, This is bullshit.He will treat u the same or even worst after marriage. If you are going to agree to everything he say for marriage, after marriage he will be stepping/controlling you right uder his foot.I think i m glad that i have not married.Although giving up this 8 yrs is tough but i m not going to let myself be unhappy/suffer after marriage.

He is not cherishing me then too bad..I believe there are other guys who will cherish me more than he do.